Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Going on a picnic with Carole

Carole's Ten on Tuesday topic for today is 10 Things You Would Bring on a Picnic
You mean like that romantic idea of a french picnic in the midst of a field laying on a blanket with a bottle of wine and cheese and baguette in a wicker basket?  None of that for Mr MaynĂ© thank you very much.


  1. water water and more water (because the picnics my family usually do include slave-driven hikes - my dh is the slave driver)
  2. trail mix (see above)
  3. chips - cant have a picninc without chips
  4. cookies or brownies cut into small squares - much needed energy for our picnics
  5. sandwiches for everyone - what an ordeal!  has to be sliced sausage or patĂ© with lettuce and tomato on a baguette for DH, cured ham and butter on baguette for alex, regular ham and mayo on baguette for remi, and lettuce, tomato, mayonnaise, salt, pepper and ham on soft american type sandwich bread for me. 
  6. fruit or "drinkable" compote
  7. fruit juice boxes for kids
  8. carrot sticks
  9. water bowl for doggies
  10. dog food for doggies
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And with all that in our backpacks, you can really feel sorry for me and my poor kids as dh drags us out on our "picnic", that's about a 3 hour walk away from the house then back again ;P
Wonderful memories i wouldnt change for anything once mine and remi's hypoglycemic meanie tendancies are in check ;)
Lest you think i dont enjoy those hikes, here are a few pics from a couple of our hikes
a hiking/camping trip in the pyrenees
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an improptu hike near marseille
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Monday, May 20, 2013

What Katie Did

I'm so excited.  I've been wanting to get a few things from What Katie Did for about a year now, but never have because of price, fitting issues, worry about comfort, worry i'd be disappointed with the effect.
I recently bought a very high-waisted pencil skirt.  It's lovely but i have rolls and bumps wher i used to not and even though dh thinks it looks fine on me ( a rarity 8^O) i dont.  i'm too self-conscious to wear it.  You really can see every bump and lump.  So i tried on a pair of shaping shorts at the dept store and the waist band of the shapers hit a little below my natural waist.  So whereas it smoothed out my thighs and hips, it left a very visible mark at my waist. 
I looked online for high wiasted ones, and well, they're just all so ugly :/
So i finaly decided to go for it.  That said there wasnt really anything on the WKD site that would take care of my thighs, more like all to take care of waist.
i hemmed and hawed and finally went for the merry widow in spite of my misgivings concerning my hard to fit bust.
I was so impatient to receive it!!!
And when it came...!!!!woot!!!!!
i saw a hot pink package and knew it was from them :DSans titre
and check out the pretty black tissue paper.Sans titre
and here's the pretty little number itself.Sans titre

Well, i didnt keep it because the bust...ddint fit.  it figures. And even if it did fit, i wouldnt have kept it because it gives a bust shape that there is no way i would feel comfortable with.  It's not a bullet bra according to the description on the site, but it comes darn near close to it! 8^O
I think bullet bra shapes are fine if you dont have big boobs, but if you do, good lord!  it's like if i turn a corner...what's that?  oh it's becca's boobs.
they stood out like ten feet in front of me!  well, on the other hand i guess that can speak for the mega control it has going right?

So why am i writing about something i didnt keep?
Well, the customer service is AWESOME!  Irreproachable! Professional, friendly, helpful.  She even tolerated my use of the word butt, even adopting it though i'm quite sure she usually says bum.  She didnt even snicker when i used the word hose insteead of stockings.  Though she couldnt quite bring herself to say hose lol.  They have a very generous return policy because they realize how hard it is to find a good fit.
The Merry Widow itself, other than the bust thing, was beautiful, surprisingly extremely comfortable, i'd say comforting even, making you feel all hugged in!, and very good at doing its job! i loved it!  i loved the line it gave me and i love how it made me feel in it :D
So I have returned the MW to be replaced by the  glamour waist cincher  which, when paired with a pair of shaper shorts i did end up purchasing after all at  half off at a going out of business sale, should take care not only of all the lower body lumps and bumps but also that horrible bulge i have right under the bra strap.
I have to pay the return fees but not the shipping back out.  I think this is a very fair policy.
I cannot wait to receive it :D
I hope i love the fit of this as much as i did the fit of the MW.
In fact, i might love it more.  The MW had boning down the sides and that boning being a little elasticy, if i pushed on it with my fingers, it hugged into my waist and when i let go of it, it slightly sprang back out.  According to the customer service rep, the waist cincher has boning on front and back but not on sides, so it shouldnt do that.
I'll be sure to let you know :D
I'll hold off wearing my pencil skirt until then lol.

So i have a question for you, since the waist cincher and MW both have garter straps, you kind of have to wear hose with them or it will ride up according to WKD.  What's the deal on wearing hose in the spring?  and the summer?
i've never worn hose in spring or summer because i've always lived in the south and good lord i cant imagine the sweat!  any of you have any opinions on hose etiquette? is it like no white shoes after labor day? (or is it memorial day?) or can you wear hose all the year round?
i mean, i guess back before the bra burning days women, even in the south, wore hose all year round, right?

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Lynn, oh Lynn? Where are you?

Paging Mrs Lynn, paging Mrs Lynn!
You are the winner of my sew mama sew hosted giveaway.
I have your package waiting to be shipped.
This is notice number 2.
I will wait until Sunday and then i'm afraid i will have to draw  a new winner :(
I really wouldnt want to do that :(.
Please get in touch with me so i can send you your prize package.
Thank you :)

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Ten on Tuesday

Time for Carole's ten on tuesday.
Today's ten on tuesday in honor of mother's day is your 10 favorite tv moms
I dont really know what this says about the kind of mother i am, but...here goes lol
  1. Lois from malcolm in the middle.  she is one tough cookie, slightly crazy and a little off whack in her mothering style, over-bearing and hysterical, bordering on psychopathic but she really loves her kids and her husband and tries to hold it all together.  Like me, she has trouble navigating between kids so utterly different from one another and distinguishing what's her business from what's not.  Also, like me, her kids are totally embarrassed by her.  I think she even copied her crazed mom look from spying on me.
  2. Peg from Love and Marriage.  Peggy BundyShe's hilarious and she makes moms like me look good ;). 'nuff said.   No, i will add my fave ever scene, she was making something from scratch in the kitchen (a rare event) with a nasty cigarette haningn out her mouth and droppig ashes all over the place including inthe bowl she was mixing.                                                                                                                            
  3. Marge from the Simpsons.Marge Simpson  Poor Marge.  Like Lois, and like me, she is pulled in a bazillion directons with her crazy brood and husband.  Though she seems to have better parenting skills than i do! egads!                                                                                                                                    
  4. Caroline Ingalls.  Is there a better mom?
  5. Carol Brady.Carol Brady  Just 'cause i loved the show but she seemed kind of absent as a mom.  I dont think she worked did she?  But it was always Alice who seemed to be there for the kids.                                                                                                                           
  6. Alice from Alice. Hard working single mom, trying to raise her teenage son.  Devoted, safe and sure, hard-working
  7. Not a mom per say, but Mrs GarrettEdna Garrett who had a mom's role toward the girls in her boarding shool.  KInd, wise, loving, sympathetic and caring.  Knew when to speak and when to listen, when to let the girls figure it out and when to step in.
  8. Another not mom but 2 people collaborating in a mom role, Mr Drummond and Pearl from different strokes.  
  9. Roseanne.  Roseannewhat a smart aleck!  too funny.  but she wont get any awards for best mom.  there was a horrible sibling rivalry thing going on that she never seemed to notice or adress or maybe she even perpetuated it?  She had same thing going on with her own sister.  My kids dont get along well at all and i thik it's the bain of my existance.  There's nothing more important to me than for those two to love and support one another.  and i try so hard to foster that to no avail.  But bad mom or not, she's hilarious.
  10. Cant think of anymore faves though i'm sure some will come to me;  So i'll go with least faves : Mrs Olsen also from Little house on the prairie.  You get the best mom and the worst in the same episode.  But are we not all the best and worst? hmmmm

Monday, May 13, 2013

Me-Made May

Well, i've kept up my Me-Made May challenge BUT i sure havent kept up with documenting it or with the flickr group page :/  le sigh... guess that will have to be part of my challenge for next may lol.
Here is a link to some progress pics of my dress.  I'm still not done but i've been working quite hard on it every day i'm off.
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This is the last pic of progress i have but i have since joined the bodice front and back and as soon as i'm done with this post, i'm going to....sew the bodice to the skirt! YEAH! exciting!

I'm a little miffed though.  and my excitement is a little curtailed.
see, thign is i have always maintained that swatches lie. They do!  really!!!!  and i also believe that muslins lie. I BELIVE THIS FIRMLY lol!
My muslin had plenty of fabric left on the side seams when holding the unsewn side closed.  so why on earth is my fashion fabric running mega small???!!!!
i mean look, the proof is in the pudding.
WTF??????
how did this happen?  my seam allowance on right side is 1/4 of an inch! yikes! that"s cutting it close lol! and i have about that much lee way on the left where the qipper will be too.
nervous nervous nervous!
also there's a slight prob with my FBA.
the darts are still a little too close to the apex even though i shortened them considerably.  and the side bust darts could be a little deeper but man!  i dont think they would work any deeper.  and then i have a bag thing going on right between the breasts.  like i need a dart right up the middle lol.

well, this thing is FAAAAAR from perfect and i said i'd make a ton to drown out the hours spent on the muslins but...i wont!  this is the one and only freakin' macaron i will ever make! lol