Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Got to get this off my chest

Well, most of you probably know by now, but I just found out about a week and a half ago that my dh (read that damned husband or dickhead, not darling husband) cheated on me twice (two one night stands) last summer. We're trying to "work things out for the kids' sake" but I'm having a really shitty day and an especially hard time getting my head around things today so I need some theraputic blogging. Bear with me or "passe ton chemin" if you're offended by the bearing of souls. Dianne is going to get on to me for airing my dirty laundry again. Sorry, Di.
Anyhow, I feel like shit. I'm scared and lost. And I don't know what the future holds for us. All your prayers are greatly appreciated. And if anyone wants to come over here and whoop some frog butt you'll be forever my hero (be forewarned, he's been doing a LOT of sports lately so bring a bat, or maybe even a gun or at least some very good running shoes).


Kendra said...

I still think Jim can "take him" if you need him too! Let us know! JOKING!! We would never do that to dear ol' "DH".

We are all hear for you. We'll help in whatever way we can. Even if it is just to listen...or read a blog.

Maybe you should talk to Nicci.

Anonymous said...

u know your mama can fix this situation. come on home, bring the dh, we have some lovely hollers around here and i've love to take him hunting. guess how many of us would return home???????? u need a vacation, we need u and the kids, take a break! love u mama - u know the prayers are just a flying.

Rebecca said...

Thank you both for making me laugh! And thank you Kendra for your sweet card I got in the mail today.

Kendra said...

Jim LOVES to hunt!! What a great idea! I'll go too! I could distract him with my wit and charm!!!

Nicci said...

Hey. My sister's husband is a hunter. Maybe I could borrow a gun and go with you.

Becca, if you ever need to talk about this, I'm here for you. Just know my prayers are with you and that you are not alone. Some people will tell you to do one thing, and some will tell you another. Only you can decide what is best for you. Just know you have a lot of people who will support you no matter what you decide. Take your time. If you can get some time away from the situation to think, you should take advantage of that. Come home.